Courageous, energetic, dynamic and full of love. Specialist in joyful relationships, communication and living a more satisfied life


"When we are centered in joy, we attain our wisdom " - Marianne Williamson


Based in France in the region of Aquitaine, Landes, Biarritz, Bayonne, Hossegor and available in UK, Bournemouth, Poole, Brighton, London or via Skype Elsa.Tarantino

You may be wondering why I think that you should take joy seriously and why it should be the only 'should' that you should have in your life??? As a child we are full of energy, hope and life, we marvel at everything.  Later we let society, preconceived ideas or others opinions dictate who or what we should be or do and lose sight of our true desires. 
Most of those should's are other peoples and are so demotivating.  I want you to decide it's time for you to go, to go for you desires and forget what others say, your inner critic and the barriers that stop you.  Reconnect to this light-heartedness, your joy for life. To finally be more of you and give yourself permission to go for what you really want!! So you can enjoy the game of life, feel good, have enriching shared experiences, do what you really love and together bring more fun, purpose and impact in this world!
I see life as a journey with obstacles, and always ups and downs.  We can either decide to look at these as negative and stop, give up or wait until the circumstances get better (which they rarely do) or decide to see them as a lesson a challenge, the next step in our evolution and learn the tools to deal with them and create solutions to meet our needs.  I know that when I  feel good, and I let joy lead me, it helps me to overcome any crap that life feels like putting in my way and I attract what I want!!!  I want you to not be limited by your past, your thoughts, guilt or social conditioning so you can be inspired to possibility and bring more energy to life.  Be who you came here to be without the judgements and self critiscism. 
That is what self-confidence is all about: understanding who we are, our emotions, trusting we are capable of making the right decisions, and being proud to follow our hearts without worrying about opinions of others.  


Trust me, life wasn't always this joyful for me. I grew up, as many people in society do, believing that I had to struggle or fight for what I wanted and work hard to earn money.  When I started secondary school I remember the teacher saying to me "I hope that you are going to be like your sister", a serious and brilliant student. At that moment I felt rejected, undervalued and misjudged. I think I spent a long time believing I couldn't be me, and trying to be someone that everyone else wanted me to be, forgetting about my feelings, emotions, needs and desires. I had to conform to their ideal.  I felt guilty for choosing me, both in my personal and professional life. I took things that came to me, rather than expressing the joyous person I was, and following what made me feel good ........READ MORE


Life and Confidence Coach

Ersilia is a consultant, facilitator and writer for joyful and inspired living.  She supports people in their relationships, business and daily life to discover what brings them joy and regain the confidence and mindset to go for what they really want.  From a background as a tour guide, trained intuitive coach and professional coach of excellence, at the Lunion school of Coaching and Intuition, and previous business owner she has bought all her tools together to develop a method to retrain your brain for more positive attitudes and bring more fun and light-heartedness back to life. Making feeling good a path to success.  Growing up in the uk with an italian father she knows what “la dolce vita” is all about.  Having spent many years working in France she knows what losing your way is all about and the other side, suffering... Life is just one big school teaching us how to be in all our states.   When you are in your natural state of joy you become a cocreator in the game of life. Today Ersilia brings a dynamic new way of looking at life as a game and understanding how to win it on your terms with your rules!!! 

As an expert and trainor for Coaches and of the 3C method, a body mind method - Concentration - Calm - Control - that offers everyday techniques to deal with your emotions, create more focus and calm for both adults and children and other techniques, such as Non Violent Communication and play, she has bought all her knowledge together to create the joy concept.  

It’s all about discovering who you are. Invest in yourself because you’re worth it. (L’Oreal got that right) Do you finally dare to live the life you desire and let joy lead you?